who or what

my mom disapproves of people from church helping me and my family out. is it because of who they are as people or their affiliation of the Mormon church? i have a friend who asked about my dad's former place or residence. he happens to be a member of my church and a realtor. i asked dad if my friends from my church could've help my dad move and he said yes. mom said no. it's not up to her if she's not the 1 moving.