1 sided relationship

i've said it once and i'll say it again. i hate sided relationships. what makes it worse is if it's a parent doing nothing to have a relationship with their kid. seriously. your kid is making an effort or doing a ton for you can't you make a TINY effort to for them? i'm in that scenario now. i've made friends but i can't bring them to my dad's place as he can't keep the house clean. i ask him to do 1 thing and he tries to get out of it.