Evan

a lot of people have been asking me if I'm dating this guy I went to prom with. let me set the record straight: no I am not dating anyone. I'm still single. if I weren't I'd have changed my relationship status on Facebook. I've seen the guy I went to prom with (Evan) but we aren't alone that often. we've only been alone twice. both times grabbing lunch. it was a normal friend thing to do. we hang out a lot. my mom likes seeing us together as we have "similar coloring". I like seeing him as a friend. during after prom we got a caricature and everyone went nuts over it since he and I were there together and in the caricature together. we also got pictures and a photo strip. it was so cute. I honestly tried to stay up really late. luckily it wasn't that bad. he's a nice guy but is a little to gentlemanly. once I said we needed napkins and he offered to get them. I was already up so I offered to grab them since it was convenient. he opens doors for me, gets things for me. he's a sweetie but I'm an independent person so its a little strange. I grew up with 3 younger brothers so I learned to fend for myself. its not uncommon for me to "fend for myself" in situations without my brothers. of course it's still sweet of him to act like a gentleman around me. yesterday I saw him and treated him to lunch. of course he was trying to be a romantic guy but of course I still covered his lunch along with mine. luckily it wasn't too expensive. his mom had taken the picture of us after the lunch. she posted it on Facebook (she tagged me in it)and people started liking that picture like crazy, including myself. what's nuts is that I've never had a picture (my own or tagged in) having more than 10-15 likes. it was a refreshing change of pace which was cool. although that picture he had his arm around me and it looked like we were dating. it shows how he's changing. one thing that makes me a little freaked out is how Evan's nature is changing. I asked him to prom (which he said yes as friends). he started acting friendly to me. like once I was taking a drink out of my water bottle and thought everyone else was out of the gym due to a water break. I lifted the water bottle to my mouth and saw Evan on the end of the water bottle. I took my drink and asked him what was up. he said, nothing and asked what was up with me. I said nothing. he started acting like that even though he and I went to prom as friends. he bought me a necklace from Boulder, Colorado. again that's so weird because he's my friends. he flirted like crazy during allied softball, the senior banquet and prom. it freaked me out a little since I thought he wanted to be my friend. I noticed him acting differently since a ton of guys have crushed on me and flirted like crazy. luckily I was able to know the signs of flirting. he was so cute flirting during the senior banquet. although it felt a little weird since I wanted it to be a last time before prom and I wanted to go out with a bang. he said, I'd see Trevor his twin brother there. I saw Trevor but only saw him a couple times. I only spoke with him once. I spent my time with Evan primarily. he was cute when he danced for me. it was a little weird since I was trying to relax and take a break. I was OK with it. I thought, "OK impress me", which he did. he also bumped me in the back probably to get my attention, which it did for a little bit. I turned away because it was awkward. what was more awkward was that he grabbed my arm and asked where I was going. I don't remember if it was to answer my phone or to go to the bathroom. what's also weird is that he seems to be into what I'm into. he's asking about ASL (American sign language), diabetes and pretty little liars. I understand ASL since its an interesting topic but pretty little liars is a chick series. not to be derogatory to me and my fellow gender but it is a chick series. most people who watch the TV show and read the book series are girls. I wonder why all of a sudden he's into ASL. he says he has no idea why he likes it. a couple of my friends say he's changing his interests to get my attention but it could be because he wants to find common ground and talk. I've done some stuff about diabetes considering I have it. he's even asked if he could watch me test my blood sugar. it was a little nerve wrecked since no one other than my family (step-dad and SBFF included) saw me test my blood sugar. it was a little weird because I didn't know he was curious about that. luckily he didn't do anything that would bother me doing it. that would been extremely bad. he probably didn't want to see me getting Power Ade zero yesterday. it's a tasty drink on and off the court. it's also a nerve settler since I was nervous about seeing Evan yesterday and paying for the lunch. I often would meet up and have fun. I'm not sure why he and I are "cute together" but its nice to have someone like that. people told me that about every time I told some people Evan & I were going to prom together. actually they said, "aw." and "do you like him?" I explained he and I were going as friends. they said, "do you want to go as more?" I said, I was fine with going as friends. I didn't tell them that he started acting friendly to me. although everyone loved me and Evan entering prom together. before he and I went he waited until I asked him to sit next to him. which wouldn't have been bad except it was in his house. little freak eh? its nice because he's actually flirting like crazy with me. although I wonder if he feels the same way about me as I feel about him. I think he might. he and I have started the "kiss" phase in our friendship. he and I kiss, hold hands sit close together. occasionally I'll put my head on his shoulder but he'll shake since he's on anti-seizure medication. on Friday he flirted with me with his parents sort of in the room (the kitchen and living room are connected). he was weird about sitting next to me at prom but Evan's his own person and rarely is like anybody else.